She will see it in your pictures…Or, perhaps she might clue in when talks to you on the phone…When you act inconsistently around women, they get confused, and then they stop talking to you…I dedicate a chapter to solving each one of these mistakes in the The best part is…
I show you how to do all of this by being YOURSELF so you don’t have to use any gimmicky pick up lines.
And once you know how it is inadvertently turning off the men who are looking for a positive, fun connection, it’s really not that difficult.
Here are the top five profile mistakes common to women over 40, along with specific tips to make your profile more appealing and reflective of the best you. Your profile is your calling card, not a wish list.
Their initial email usually says something like: Well, I’m sure you get this a lot but you are really beautiful. here’s my number…”Women get that kind of email all the time. What other secrets are hidden behind that innocent smile? Most men make the mistake of using a long laundry list of “good qualities” in their dating profiles.
As we get older the man-to-woman ratio moves more and more lopsided.Research by Ok Cupid on its members’ profile pictures revealed that users were seen as exponentially more attractive based on the lighting, facial expression, and quality of the camera used.Women also look to see what your other pictures say about you… Do you look like a drunken idiot in your party pictures? Many women get bombarded with so many messages on dating sites every day that reading all of them would take way more time than they want to spend online… Instead, they scan the pictures while looking at the subject lines for ones that grab their attention.Attraction is not logical, and you must engage women’s emotions if you want to be able to attract them consistently.A laundry list of your qualities will get you nowhere.If you’re making these common mistakes, let’s clean that up right away so you can get to the FUN parts of meeting women online! When you send a woman an empty wink, at best it makes you come across as VERY lazy… Men who wink at women all the time aren’t selective – they will take ANY woman who shows interest in return. According to the book “Freakonomics”, a woman is 8 times more likely to click on a profile that has at least one picture, versus a profile that has no picture.